The rub? Pleasurable peach play requires patience and some pleasure aids (mainly: lube)! Here's why: The entrance of the anal canal is guarded by two muscles, known as the anal sphincter muscles. These Bidets Will Keep Your Butt Happier Than Ever But for others, butt sex is more like pГўtГ©: intriguing, worth a try, but absolutely not up their alleys (as in, a penis or dildo will probably not be going up that alley ever again). Thing is, anal sex can oftentimes become the preferred method for women who don't have vaginas, for those for whom vaginal penetration is especially painful, and for women who simply experience more pleasure that way, Clarke says.ДЇor some women, it's the cherry on top of a sexual sundae: a little extra treat that elevates something that was already delicious on its own (talking about sex here).

'Unfortunately, there is still a tendency to stigmatize acts that might be considered 'non-traditional' for some people, due to lack of information,' explains Alexis Clarke, PhD, a licensed psychologist who specializes in sex and relationships.

Still, actually having anal sex remains ~controversial~ among women, no matter how often it's discussed. Even though anal sex-or at least, talking about anal sex-has become significantly less taboo in the past decade, it still remains the big elephant in the bedroom, despite the world becoming a lot more comfortable with the derriГЁre.Д«utts have taken on an entirely new status (thanks, social media!).and the good news is society has become more sex-positive overall (yay!).

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